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August 05 原来这么久没有更新了 好久没有上blog了，也没有什么特别的理由。只是懒吧！也许是长大了，觉得其实没有什么特别好分享的，写多了倒是有卖弄的嫌疑。
工作依然是很忙，可是挺开心的。 我其实也不是喜欢我的工作，倒是喜欢我的公司和我的同事。老板更是把我当女儿看，让我这个一个人在外的孩子觉得真的挺温暖的。
前几天我和老板聊天，谈到了个人问题（我老板和我爸妈一样，老是担心我太贪玩，不会好好谈恋爱）。有一段话我觉得很中肯：When we decide to be with someone, we should understand that we are having the whole package, including things that we might not be happy to have. We cannot choose to have the good part but take the other wrong part away, because the person is as a whole piece. Nobody is perfect and we cannot change others to be whom they are not. Love should be a 100% acceptance of the person.
If we are mature enough, we can be with anyone and be happy with that person.
还有一段话我持保留意见，是关于女孩子选伴侣的：If the girls are confident and mature enough, they can marry anyone and be happy. They can bring up smart kids and help their husband achieve higher in his career by being a supportive wife. U can marry someone ordinary, but make him extraordinary by being a wise woman.
不知道大家有没有从以上的话中，学到什么呢？我老板可是有一个非常幸福的家庭哦！ |
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